The importance of Purpose Alignment: giving Your life direction

Why is purpose important?

Without purpose you’re cheating yourself of completeness or wholeness. It’s the thing that makes life come full circle. It’s the reason for your existence or presence. It’s the guide for your place on earth. 


But, here’s the real gold:

Put your energy and focus on finding your purpose AND aligning it with EACH area of your life. Purpose alignment is the PERFECT guide to happier and mentally healthier living. Let purpose be your compass!

There are three big areas of your life that you should make sure your purpose spills over:

Your spiritual life, relationships, and CAREER!


And, there are three main reasons why:

  1. You will be clear on knowing your place and part in each of those areas. When you’re clear on that, you have the direction you need to make decisions and have peace with whatever it means to be successful in those areas. Who doesn’t want clarity, direction, and peace?

  2. You will get the fulfillment that you need in each of those areas. Too often, we feel empty because we expend a lot of energy and time on things and people, it or they don’t reciprocate, and we are stuck wondering what’s the point? When you are in purpose, that’s almost never a question. Being in purpose allows you to feel good about sharing your presence and making a difference.

  3. You will be the most motivated you have ever been to wake up and do life. Sometimes, or a lot of times, we don’t want to get out of bed because there’s very few things that we are looking forward to, ahead of us. An average person gets out of bed out of obligation. They do what they have to do to survive and that’s it. But, when you have purpose and everything you do aligns with it, you get excited about what the day is going to bring.


So, why not choose a purposeful lifestyle over a survival one?

If you want a life full of excitement, fulfillment, direction, clarity, and ultimately, peace, it’s the best choice!

NOW

If you’re looking to find purpose and/or aligning it with those areas mentioned above and need some guidance, you’re in the right place. All we need you to do is schedule your FREE consultation and the rest will be history!
 

How to Get Results: 3-Step Guide to Getting Better Results than Last Time

What you spend the most of your time, effort, and mind on is what’s going to grow; it’s what you give your power to. STOP giving it to things that are meaningless and unimportant. If you want to see results from whatever pursuit you’re on, give it your time, effort, and mind.

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How to get results in your pursuit:

  1. Make time

 Questions to ask yourself:

What have you said you wanted that doesn’t seem possible?

Have you made up your mind that the goal is not reachable because you’re too busy?

Did it ever cross your mind that we make time for what we believe is important?

 

So, if you are employed, your job is probably most important because it’s how you survive and take care of your responsibilities. And most of the time, everything else in your life, besides maybe your family, takes a backseat.  

 If this sounds familiar, try this:

Make a list of your priorities

Write why they are priorities and if they are helping you become who you need to be and go the places you wish to go

If needed, change your list of priorities

2. Share your energy

 Questions to ask yourself:

 What takes the most or all of your energy?

What will it take for you NOT to expend all of your energy on one or two things?

 

If you’re like me just a short, couple of years ago, I kept busy at my job just to make the day go by faster. I expended most of my energy at a job that only did one thing for me, pay my bills. When I left for the day, the rest of my energy was expended on cooking a meal and social media. None of those things pushed me to become who I am today, but I didn’t have the energy to do anything else.

 If this sounds familiar, try this:

Say no to unnecessary things at work (or whatever the expenditure is)

Find a job that complements your new pursuit (or any replacement necessary)

Try new regimens that will help boost your energy (vitamins, diet, etc.)

 

3.Mindset adjustment

Questions to ask yourself:

Is more of your focus on why you can’t be successful in your pursuit, or what you can change to make things happen?

Are you the type to look for the good in everything, or do you shine light on the negative?

 

When I looked at everything through the lenses of depression, it seemed like the best thing to do when it came to my survival lifestyle, was to just stick it out. I felt like it took too much out of me to transition into the lifestyle I wanted to live, and it probably wouldn’t have worked out the way I planned.

 If this sounds familiar, try this:

 Address the things that’s stopping you from moving forward (depression, fear, anxiety, etc.)

Train your brain to do what you want it to do and think

 

What are you pursing and what are you doing to make sure you are getting results?  It’s the time, effort, and mind that’s going to get you further than the last time. If you want something different, do more. If whatever you’re currently doing is not working, do less.

 

Follow this three-part guide and watch the results come rolling in.

 

If you are currently looking for a certified life coach that will give you further tools and motivation to be successful, you are in the right place. Schedule a FREE consultation with Coach Tiya G.!

How to Live Life to the Fullest

“Living your life to the fullest is not taking vacations from the life you hate. Each area of your life should be filled with love, meaning, and purpose.”

If your life is just about you and how you’re going to survive, you’re not going to survive. That will kill you either mentally, spiritually, physically, or all of the above. We are not created to live in purposeless, survival.

How to live life to the fullest:

1.       Constantly, get to know and love yourself and share that with others, as much as possible.

When you get to know and love yourself, you get a sense of identity, realize your importance and place in the world. This process is definitely a journey, but start with unlearning the lies society taught you and start paying attention to all the great things about yourself, without anyone’s input.

2.       Find your purpose and make sure each area of your life aligns with it.

When purpose is found, you also find meaning and reason to do life. This is important for your mental health, joy, peace, and happiness. It also makes life a MUCH better experience when it aligns with each area of your life, ESPECIALLY your career. Although your purpose is not attached to a title or position, your titles or positions should align with it; otherwise, finding purpose is pointless. To make life even more purposeful, let that alignment spill over into other areas, like friendships, relationships, family, volunteer work, or ministries.

3.       Appreciate every experience or circumstance and allow them to help you grow or prepare for great things ahead.

 When you appreciate every experience or circumstance you won’t allow too much room for life disappointments. Look at each experience or circumstance as a part of the process or preparation for the person you want to become or the places you want to go. When life happens, take your moment, just to be in the moment, and then remind yourself that because you’re living a life of purpose, everything will work out for the good.

 

Follow those three steps and you will experience life the way it’s supposed to be experienced, to the FULLEST! No more just getting by or only doing things for survival. Make your first move! What’s it gonna be?

 

If you feel strongly about living life to the fullest, but you need someone to walk you through it and give you the tools to be successful, schedule your FREE consultation with Coach Tiya G. We will set you up for success and a better lifestyle!